Anal sex - Getting your partner to try it

StrictlySocial · April 10, 2007, 05:11 AM

Unfortunetly I've never gone out with a girl who has been up for trying anal sex, and being the person I am I like to try out all sort of things.

Now, as much as I can understand the fact that girls are often a) scared and b) have the opinion their arse is only for one use!, has anybody out there managed to convince their partners (who were previously anti-anal) to actually do it? If so how did you convince them?

Mark · April 10, 2007, 05:49 PM

sure.. lots of alcohol.. jk.. Look up different articles online from doctors & what not, surprisingly most of them say that aside from the possibilities of infection, that their isn't much wrong with it, so I suggest going after her with knowledge in hand.

FabZab · April 10, 2007, 06:30 PM

Doesn't anal sex make you increase your risk of getting hepatitis or something?

You test the waters out by using your fingers first. See how she is.
Just do a ninja in the stinker, see what happens.

crowdpleaser · April 11, 2007, 01:03 AM

Hey StrictlySocial... I've been succesful twice now... here's the clincher:
I dated both of them for over 3 years, sorry...
Anal is not something I'd want to be doing with any random person anyways.

nanor2999 · April 13, 2007, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by FabZab

Doesn't anal sex make you increase your risk of getting hepatitis or something?

You test the waters out by using your fingers first. See how she is.
Just do a ninja in the stinker, see what happens.

anal increases your risk of everything because it's easier to come in contact with unhygienic fluids like blood due to the thin lining of the colon - always wrap it up, use plenty lube and be gentle!

lowery · April 13, 2007, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by nanor2999

always wrap it up, use plenty lube and be gentle!

...pretty much exactly what I was going to say. Lots of lube is definitely essential. Go slowly at first, and if it hurts your girl too much, stop then and there. Remember that if it really sucks for her the first time, there won't be a second, so don't get too into it and start to jackhammer; bungholes are delicate.

dullprize · April 13, 2007, 09:29 PM

The best advice I could give in my own experience is pretty much the same for vaginal intercourse:

If you make her love it when you lick it, she will later let you stick it.

And if a little rimming sounds too gross to you, then maybe you might want to think about what makes you so squeamish about anal.

square peg · April 18, 2007, 03:11 AM

An ex of mine finally came around, and although she admitted to enjoying it, it was a one time thing.

bankrbr · April 19, 2007, 03:13 PM

you cant trust a girl who takes it up da bum ...FACT

DaGr8Gatzby · April 24, 2007, 01:46 AM

This is what I always tell my friends,

Let her do it to you, and she'll return the favor.

I swear this works for so many ladies. I resent that most males think it makes them a homosexual if they have been anally penetrated. There are a lot of nerve endings in the prostate area that will be stimulated if you let your girl try it. Be openminded.

Jessiluv · April 24, 2007, 12:38 PM

Lots of wine worked for me. If you lick it she will see how sexy and kinky it is and be dying to try it.

n2itallnite · April 29, 2007, 03:07 PM

lick it before you stick it. go down on a girl's ass, and she'll let you do anything.

j_math_ag · May 05, 2007, 10:02 PM

there's always time for lube!

pinheadSp · May 07, 2007, 05:54 PM

Use your fingers first. See if she likes that. Be gentle.

Scooter · June 30, 2007, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by pinheadSp

Use your fingers first. See if she likes that. Be gentle.

That's true. Plenty of lube too. My girfriend has let me try it twice so far. Although we did go very gently I think that it still hurt her a bit.

As another poster said though, it was a good few years of living together before she and I tried it.

Scoot

bobocgc · July 06, 2007, 06:16 PM

my girl let me do it once but how now she wont let me, i have tried beer licking pretty much damn near everything, it was like 2 years ago and she said that she liked it...guess not!!

dmill78 · July 09, 2007, 03:50 PM

i agree with the other posters on here. i think you shouldgo down on her, lick both spots, then very gentally ease a finger in there... the pinky would be best. then work your way to a larger finger, then possibly two, then three. after that lots of lube and you should be able to fit your member in there. this may take several sessions though, so be patient. but if she's willing to let you lick it, she'll let you stick it... just remember to be gentle and patient with her.

thebody5 · July 16, 2007, 09:36 AM

Hey buddy believe me it is not easy. But like one other person said. You have to give it time. Not something you want to bring up right away. I think a good way is to just starting rubbing her a little durning sex there and see how she reacts and slow introduce new things. good luck

Abehmetuik · July 19, 2007, 06:21 AM

after dating for a few weeks with this one girl she begged me to do it because she was curious and mmmmm it felt gooood.. then a while later when i was with another girl she said if she could finger my bum while givin me head she will let me fuck her ass so i donno lol

Mark · July 25, 2007, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Abehmetuik

.. then a while later when i was with another girl she said if she could finger my bum while givin me head she will let me fuck her ass so i donno lol

SO WHAT DID YOU DO? LOL

Dalvis · August 04, 2007, 09:33 AM

I used to have a girlfriend that liked anal, but there's no way my wife would go for it.

tobey01 · August 17, 2007, 07:09 PM

They all really love it once they try it

April 10, 2007, 05:11 AM	#1 (permalink)
StrictlySocial Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 5 Time Spent On Forums: 1 h 1 mins 59 secs Gender:	Anal sex - Getting your partner to try it Unfortunetly I've never gone out with a girl who has been up for trying anal sex, and being the person I am I like to try out all sort of things. Now, as much as I can understand the fact that girls are often a) scared and b) have the opinion their arse is only for one use!, has anybody out there managed to convince their partners (who were previously anti-anal) to actually do it? If so how did you convince them?

July 16, 2007, 09:36 AM	#18 (permalink)
thebody5 Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 4 Time Spent On Forums: 1 h 1 mins 32 secs Gender:	give it time. Hey buddy believe me it is not easy. But like one other person said. You have to give it time. Not something you want to bring up right away. I think a good way is to just starting rubbing her a little durning sex there and see how she reacts and slow introduce new things. good luck

April 10, 2007, 05:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
Mark Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 654 Status: Single Time Spent On Forums: 1 weeks 5 days 1 hours Gender:	sure.. lots of alcohol.. jk.. Look up different articles online from doctors & what not, surprisingly most of them say that aside from the possibilities of infection, that their isn't much wrong with it, so I suggest going after her with knowledge in hand.

April 10, 2007, 06:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
FabZab Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 6 Time Spent On Forums: 1 h 7 mins 1 secs Gender:	Doesn't anal sex make you increase your risk of getting hepatitis or something? You test the waters out by using your fingers first. See how she is. Just do a ninja in the stinker, see what happens.

April 11, 2007, 01:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
crowdpleaser Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: The dirty south... Posts: 202 Time Spent On Forums: 1 days 4 hours 45 mins Gender:	Hey StrictlySocial... I've been succesful twice now... here's the clincher: I dated both of them for over 3 years, sorry... Anal is not something I'd want to be doing with any random person anyways.

April 13, 2007, 09:29 PM	#7 (permalink)
dullprize Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 7 Time Spent On Forums: 3 h 51 mins 45 secs Gender:	The best advice I could give in my own experience is pretty much the same for vaginal intercourse: If you make her love it when you lick it, she will later let you stick it. And if a little rimming sounds too gross to you, then maybe you might want to think about what makes you so squeamish about anal.

April 18, 2007, 03:11 AM	#8 (permalink)
square peg Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 4 Time Spent On Forums: 3 h 1 mins 0 secs Gender:	An ex of mine finally came around, and although she admitted to enjoying it, it was a one time thing.

April 19, 2007, 03:13 PM	#9 (permalink)
bankrbr Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 13 Status: Married Time Spent On Forums: 3 h 2 mins 55 secs Gender:	you cant trust a girl who takes it up da bum ...FACT

April 24, 2007, 01:46 AM	#10 (permalink)
DaGr8Gatzby Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Time Spent On Forums: 2 h 54 mins 50 secs Gender:	This is what I always tell my friends, Let her do it to you, and she'll return the favor. I swear this works for so many ladies. I resent that most males think it makes them a homosexual if they have been anally penetrated. There are a lot of nerve endings in the prostate area that will be stimulated if you let your girl try it. Be openminded.

April 24, 2007, 12:38 PM	#11 (permalink)
Jessiluv Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 5 Time Spent On Forums: 1 h 10 mins 56 secs Gender:	Lots of wine worked for me. If you lick it she will see how sexy and kinky it is and be dying to try it.

April 29, 2007, 03:07 PM	#12 (permalink)
n2itallnite Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 6 Time Spent On Forums: 1 h 11 mins 27 secs Gender:	lick it before you stick it. go down on a girl's ass, and she'll let you do anything.

May 05, 2007, 10:02 PM	#13 (permalink)
j_math_ag Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 5 Time Spent On Forums: 15 mins 25 secs Gender:	there's always time for lube!

September 09, 2007, 02:47 PM	#23 (permalink)
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May 07, 2007, 05:54 PM	#14 (permalink)
pinheadSp Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 5 Time Spent On Forums: 50 mins 52 secs Gender:	Use your fingers first. See if she likes that. Be gentle.

July 06, 2007, 06:16 PM	#16 (permalink)
bobocgc Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 5 Time Spent On Forums: 7 h 15 mins 53 secs Gender:	my girl let me do it once but how now she wont let me, i have tried beer licking pretty much damn near everything, it was like 2 years ago and she said that she liked it...guess not!!

July 09, 2007, 03:50 PM	#17 (permalink)
dmill78 Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7 Time Spent On Forums: 3 h 11 mins 10 secs Gender:	i agree with the other posters on here. i think you shouldgo down on her, lick both spots, then very gentally ease a finger in there... the pinky would be best. then work your way to a larger finger, then possibly two, then three. after that lots of lube and you should be able to fit your member in there. this may take several sessions though, so be patient. but if she's willing to let you lick it, she'll let you stick it... just remember to be gentle and patient with her.

July 19, 2007, 06:21 AM	#19 (permalink)
Abehmetuik Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Chicago Posts: 14 Status: Single Time Spent On Forums: 16 h 2 mins 6 secs Gender:	after dating for a few weeks with this one girl she begged me to do it because she was curious and mmmmm it felt gooood.. then a while later when i was with another girl she said if she could finger my bum while givin me head she will let me fuck her ass so i donno lol

August 04, 2007, 09:33 AM	#21 (permalink)
Dalvis Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 5 Status: Married Time Spent On Forums: 2 h 17 mins 0 secs Gender:	I used to have a girlfriend that liked anal, but there's no way my wife would go for it.

August 17, 2007, 07:09 PM	#22 (permalink)
tobey01 Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 5 Status: Gay/Lesbian Time Spent On Forums: 6 h 5 mins 16 secs Gender:	They all really love it once they try it